A season of practices looks like one yes at the sign-up table. By the middle of the season it is a weekly drive with a rota of its own, and the afternoon that used to belong to Mom now has a whistle in it. Before you sign, lay the whole season over both of your calendars and mark every collision in lemon, the same way you already do on the split week.
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Check the days against both rows
Ask for the full practice schedule, not just the first two weeks. Then count the practice days that land on Mom's afternoons, your late meeting nights, and the handoff days. One practice on a Tuesday is a small thing. Two practices on the days Mom needs you at her house is a pattern you will feel by mid-season, so count it now while you can still pick a different time slot.
Ask about the game-day ride
Games often pull a different load than practice. Ask who drives to away games, how far the away fields sit from your house, and whether the team keeps a carpool list you can join or leave. Find out whether the coach expects a parent to stay at the field or whether the kids can be dropped off. A parent who must stay for the whole game is a different commitment than one who drops and goes.
Ask what a missed practice means
Every program has a missed-week rule, and it is rarely in the first email. Ask whether a child who misses a practice loses playing time, whether there is a make-up session, and how much notice the coach wants before an absence. If a Mom's Week has a planned visit that falls on a game day, you want that answer before the first whistle, not after the first missed game.
Ask what happens if you need the way out
Ask what is returned, what is kept, and how the decision gets made if your child wants to stop halfway through. Get the answer in writing or in the team's welcome message. The question sounds negative, but it is the one that keeps a poor fit from becoming a miserable season.
Write the answers down
Put the practice days, the game-day ride, the missed-week rule and the exit terms in one note that sits next to the calendar. When a coach moves a practice later, you will know which row to check and whether the change lands on Mom's afternoon. If you want to see how the whole split week fits together before you commit to anything else, start with Start Here: The Reading Order.