A video doorbell looks like a single screw-and-stick job until you are on the ladder with old chime wires in one hand and your phone in the other. Run it in order and it becomes a clean, one-afternoon job. Skip the order and you will climb the ladder twice. The sequence is: check the wiring and the Wi-Fi, mount the unit, set up the account and alerts, test the whole loop, then write the handoff.
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Step one: check what is already at the door
Look at the existing doorbell first. If there are two wires behind the old button, you may be able to use a wired model. If there is no doorbell at all, or the wires look old or cracked, or you cannot tell which wire is which, pick a battery model or stop and hire an electrician. Working with house wiring is a reason to call a professional, not a reason to be brave on a ladder.
Then check the Wi-Fi at the door. Stand where the camera will be with your phone and watch the signal and the speed. A weak signal at the door means the camera will drop out in bad weather, which is when you need it most. The fixes are usually a closer router or an extender, and the test takes a minute.
Step two: pick the mounting spot and the angle
Hold the unit where you plan to mount it. Make sure the view covers the step and the porch light, and that glare from the street light or the sun will not wash out the picture. Mark the holes with a pencil, check the bracket with a level, and drill only after the marks look right. Keep the bracket and the small screws in one labeled bag so nothing rolls into the bushes.
Step three: set up the account the way the house runs
Create the account in your mom's name with her email, then add yourself and a sibling as shared users. Decide who gets the alert on which phone and during which hours. Turn on motion zones only where you need them. Check whether your city or neighborhood association has rules about cameras that face the street, and follow those rules. This is a practical check, not legal advice.
Step four: test the full loop
Walk up to the door the way a visitor would. Press the button, listen for the chime, and then check that each phone gets its alert on time. Look at the live video, then at a saved clip, and check the picture after dark with the porch light on and off. Confirm the speaker works, because a camera that cannot talk cannot tell a delivery driver where to leave the box. Test the indoor chime too.
Step five: write the handoff
Write down the login, the Wi-Fi password, where the spare battery is kept, and the name of the person who will replace the battery and check the alerts each month. Keep the note with the owner's manual, not only in your head. Set a calendar reminder for the battery check on the Mom row so it lands on the same page where the other house jobs already live.
When the test passes, you are finished. When an alert fails, go back to step one and check the Wi-Fi again, since that is the first place to look.